My boyfriend have been dating month
It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.
You can try and try and try some more, but if the other person doesn’t want the same thing you do, then all the trying is in vain.
If your boyfriend isn’t meeting your needs, is ignoring your concerns, and has an unhealthy obsession with his ex, it’s time to move on.
Just because you love someone and want it to work out doesn’t mean it should.
Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I have been dating Colombian women for over 6 years now.
I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.
Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regarldess, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.
For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.
Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.
When I expressed my concerns and how I felt it was messing with our relationship and how he should take a break from her, he said “ok” and told her that they needed to have no contact for a while. They texted once in a while or tweeted each other, and that annoyed me because I felt they didn’t take a real break. Then, after three months, he started talking to her again. But I didn’t buy that, and for the duration of our one-year relationship I never accepted that they were truly over.
The only time we fought was when she was brought up or mentioned in conversation. Oh, but he swore up and down they were just friends – that their relationship ended for a reason and they weren’t interested in each other romantically anymore. At some point you have to say “enough is enough.” It sounds to me like you’re at that point.